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Buying is an Emotional Decision

Buying is an emotional decision.

That’s a bold statement. Don’t we think about houses or cars or shirts or dresses before we buy them?

In his book, “How Customers Think: Essential Insights into the Mind of the Market,” Harvard professor Gerald Zaltman explains that emotion drives purchasing behaviors and decision making in general. Neuroscientists confirmed this through studies that show how people with brain damage in the area that generates emotions can’t make decisions.

What does that mean for real estate?

People often approach property value as a fixed concept, like the atomic weight of gold or the speed of light. But it’s all subjective to how you feel about it. Unlike the retail price of an iPhone, real estate is worth however much someone will pay for it on a given day, no more and no less. And guess what? There’s only 1 of every property, with no two structures or land parcels having the exact same qualities and locations.

There are no perfect comps.

Why does this matter? If you understand how your feelings guide the process, you can take a step back, see more clearly what’s happening, and make better buying and selling decisions.

Example:

The market hates uncertainty, and it hates negative trends. When the rates were rising in 2022, before they got into the 7’s but still over 5%, buyers pulled back. More days on market, more price drops, fewer offers. The difference between listing in March 2022 & September 2022 was often $100,000 or more in sale price.

But here’s the thing: we’re brokering in Massachusetts, and in the bay state, people don’t hold off buying because of finances. Every year we transact deals where buyers purchase properties with more than $1 million in cash. What do these people care about rising interest rates?

Now rates are coming back down and the buyers are back in force, even with rates still sitting in the 6’s. Last weekend, our buyer submitted an offer on a house south of Boston in a town called Randolph and they had 21 offers. The house went well above 15% over list, probably closer to 20%+ over ask.

Same rates, different trends, different reaction. This isn’t a game of pure logic, this is a game of understanding your emotions.

Louis Gordon

Have you ever been burned by a professional? It’s hard to know who to trust. Reputation is important. Takes a long time to build, short time to damage. I’ll hire a pro the first time off online reviews or recommendations. But for me, until that first job is done, all the “satisfied customers”, the accomplishments, the pedigree, the past sales, it’s all just rumor and gossip. To earn my trust, that pro has to perform on a few expectations: 1. Give me all the information that’s available and important 2. Explain the risks so I’m prepared if something goes wrong 3. Do the work they promise to do when they promise to do it 4. Deliver value that’s in line with the cost 5. Be available when I have questions or concerns 6. Put my best interests first 7. Most importantly, if there’s a problem, make efforts to set things right Maybe I’m asking too much. Maybe it’s unreasonable to expect the same from others that you expect from yourself. After 15+ years in Real Estate, I’ve seen first-hand that everyone doesn’t practice business the same way I do. But I think that’s a shame. Homes are different from any other product. Houses and apartments aren’t just property, or assets, they’re a place for people to sleep at night, to store their most precious belongings, to raise their children, to keep them safe. It’s the place where most people start and end their days, the foundation for their whole lives. Backed by the most recognized name in real estate, Century 21, we hold ourselves to the highest standards, working every day to deliver best-in-class service to sellers, buyers, investors, and renters in Cambridge, Somerville, and the greater-Boston area. When we ask for your trust, we do everything possible to reward that faith, because relationships are one of our most valuable resources, and there are few things more important than homes. By The Numbers: - $200 Million+ - Sales done by our team in Massachusetts & New Hampshire - 150+ - 5-Star reviews for our team on Zillow - $50 Million+ - The real estate portfolio we manage for our investors

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